Yeah this kinda reminds me of what happened to me pretty recently Alright so like during spring break i met this girl i liked, and im pretty sure she liked me too. She lives kinda far away though, like 15-20 mins driving time. So we kept trying to hook up w/each other, like this one Friday night, she really wanted me to come see her, but I couldnt sneak out because my mom was sleeping in the living room right by the garage. I guess i felt like she was my fallback option if things didnt work out with other ppl. And like my friend told me he was gonna go to one of those prom afterparties and i was like "well maybe i can go w/her, she'd probably go w/me" And then some [expletive] happened a few days later and I got my phone and car taken away for a while So when I finally got it back a couple of weeks later, I kinda forgot about her, especially since prom was already over. So then a couple of weeks later, i called my friend and i was like "u think u could hook me up w/her" and he was like "oh she has a bf now" and i got pissed off and i wanted to talk to her about it. so he put her on conference call and i was like "wtf happened?" and she was like "u missed ur chance! if u came out here that night we probably would've hooked up but u waited too long" yep, nothing feels worse than getting screwed over... if shes a good friend, then go ahead, tell her, its not like its gonna ruin ur friendship that much. maybe at first, but then its a 1-second awkward moment and then its over