Are you shallow?

[SRV]

Most guys I know, including me, are extremely shallow. Just wondering if you guys are the same.

 

I have a bad combo though. I think I am just an average looking dude, but I only like perfect girls, with awesome bodies. Usually my lack of confidence in my looks and the fact that I like hot girls doesn't work out lol....girls tend not to be shallow though, so it works out sometimes.

[Flash]

I think every guy is shallow to an extent.

[JYD]

I'm confused on what you mean by shallow. Can you explain...

Edited September 29, 2010 by JYD

[fish7718]

I'm confused on what you mean by shallow. Can you explain...

Judge a girl by the outside and not the inside...

 

I think we are all shallow because we want to see something beautiful when we wake up the next morning...

[JYD]

at first glance sure i am shallow. i wont talk to a girl unless they are good looking first

[fish7718]

I think a lot of the shallowness comes of the pressure put on by other guys to be with an attractive girl. A lot of guys are judged by how good looking their girl is and made fun of is she's not hot. I mean at the end of the day it's whatever makes you happy, if she does it for you, [expletive] what everyone else says, they are just jealous they don't go what you have.

[Flash]

I always thought that if you surround yourself with good looking girls, then there's a higher chance you end up with a good looking girl because most of their friend will be hot.

[Guru]

I'm the most shallow person I know.

[Real Deal]

Once you're 27 and you go back and look at all of the mentally-unstable chicks you've been with, you'll realize how less shallow you should've been.

 

Got with a girl during our senior campout (this was nine years ago, lol), and she walks around to this day thinking she's hotter than fire, probably going to be single for the rest of her life. I can name six guys who have hit it since me, no telling who before me. She might have the smallest brain in the world, too. Got fired from Blockbuster because her friends (I guess) were sticking burned copies of movies back into the drop box, and she would open the cases and close them back up, stick them back on the shelves as if it was nothing, and she ended up telling the manager (who I know) that she honestly thought the Blockbuster DVD's were all burned copies, and that's why they have so many of them (no joke, by the way).

 

And no, I'm not throwing her under the bus for any particular reason other than she's the super slut...one of the better bodies I've seen around school back then, beautiful face, and absolutely nothing else.

[Flash]

Once you're 27 and you go back and look at all of the mentally-unstable chicks you've been with, you'll realize how less shallow you should've been.

 

Got with a girl during our senior campout (this was nine years ago, lol), and she walks around to this day thinking she's hotter than fire, probably going to be single for the rest of her life. I can name six guys who have hit it since me, no telling who before me. She might have the smallest brain in the world, too. Got fired from Blockbuster because her friends (I guess) were sticking burned copies of movies back into the drop box, and she would open the cases and close them back up, stick them back on the shelves as if it was nothing, and she ended up telling the manager (who I know) that she honestly thought the Blockbuster DVD's were all burned copies, and that's why they have so many of them (no joke, by the way).

 

And no, I'm not throwing her under the bus for any particular reason other than she's the super slut...one of the better bodies I've seen around school back then, beautiful face, and absolutely nothing else.

 

That girl sounds retarded as hell, was she at least hot?

 

I know my last gf was actually decent looking when we started going out but then over the course of 2 years she gradually became a grenade..serious grenade and I couldn't do it. I don't think I can be with someone who doesn't take care of themselves physically. It kills me when a girl doesn't care about how she looks.

[Check my Stats]

LOL I watched Shallow Hal last night no joke, then I see this thread.

[YugoRocketsFan]

I'd like to say I am not shallow, I do like a girl with a pretty face but I dont expect a girl to have a nice [expletive], boobs and all that. I also would rather the girl not be a [expletive]. So ya, pretty face/not a [expletive] = good for me.

[Poe]

I think girls in general are more shallow than guys might realize. Sure they'll talk about their knight in shining armor, and every now and then you might see a hot chick with a so-so guy, but the majority are really after the sex as much as guys are. At least generally speaking.

 

 

Me personally, I find an attractive brain as important as the body, if not more important. Before I can even consider a long-term relationship, I need someone that I feel I can identify with at a mental level.

[SRV]

See, I know girls tend to be extremely horny. My friend is talking to some girl, and we have sat down to eat together a few times, and all she talks about is [expletive], sex, lesbians, things that turn her on, but my friend tries to get with her and he can't. You have to make the first move though, girls wait for the guy to talk to them, rarely will they come up to you and start the conversation. So they are shy, but once you talk to them a few times, they are down for anything, at least from what I have seen lol

[Poe]

You have to make the first move though, girls wait for the guy to talk to them, rarely will they come up to you and start the conversation.

 

You can't generalize. Everybody is different. Some women are very confident and upfront, and some men are shy and submissive.

[Flash]

Just be an [expletive], works every time.

[Make It Naaaashty]

That girl sounds retarded as hell, was she at least hot?

 

Hot Body.....Beautiful Face.......

[Guru]

Just be an [expletive], works every time.

Be a douche-bag when you first meet her, get nicer as time goes on. Has worked every time for me, from one night stands to relationships.

[Flash]

Be a douche-bag when you first meet her, get nicer as time goes on. Has worked every time for me, from one night stands to relationships.

 

Yep. Smart man right there.

[deestillballin]

Nope not at all (but im not a guy but I do date girls lol)

 

Honestly a girl can be as hot as Megan Fox, Angelina Jolie etc and have the personalty of a brain dead ostrich as real said.

 

I rather have somebody who I can be me around, play video games/watch basketball and relax and relate too.. I mean hell we ALL have seen "the beast" on this website.. If i need to repost pics of her, I will (Please Real Deal don't ban me if I do) she was cool until she let her ego get to her [expletive], adn it made her uglier to what she was in the 1st place..

 

Then there was Amber, she was fine as Hell, but a lil [expletive] and it made her ugly, Looks don't make the person... gotta look passed looks, I can honestly say the reason 57% of people are still single now is because they are shallow.

[Jammin]

I like good looking girls, but I don't judge people if they're not good looking. I admit I only check out sexy girls at my work, but still.

[Guru]

I rather have somebody who I can be me around, play video games/watch basketball and relax and relate too

I don't want to sound like a douche but that is why I have friends.

I don't know, to me chilling with your girl is a lot different than chilling with your boys.

I don't want to play video games or watch basketball/football with my girl.

Pretty much opposites attract, I don't want a girl that is like a guy.

[Poe]

More and more girls are playing video games, and it's becoming more and more culturally accepted for girls to play sports.

 

 

Anyway, I don't see a reason to dislike someone more because of their activities. If anything, being interested in similar things tends to increase attraction, and that's among most people.

[Flash]

I HATED watching football with my ex because I used to get into and she'd give me the whole its just a game thing.

[SRV]

Well if a girl plays video games its cool with me, better than those girls that take you away from all your hobbies just so you spend more time with them.