Smitty Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Man, I feel like I only have one best friend now. My other close friend(who's also my roomate), have known for 10+ years. In comes some other person, and he hasn't even known her as long and he has known me and my best friend. Now normally this wouldn't be something to be tight about, but he pretty much started secretly banging the girl(and doing a very bad job at keeping it a secret ) and started getting real new(new as in he acts..different. he acts like we're not even his best friends anymore) on us whenever she called him/text him/came over. Stuff me, him and my best friend would normally do together(like go to the movies, mall etc)...now he'll just play the [expletive] out of us and go with said girl instead. Like yesterday...he was gonna kick it with us and watch football, but the dude just locked himself in his room, talking/texting to her for a good chunk of the day, and when he finally did come out, he pretty much ditched us to go "hang out" with her the rest of the day. Every so often he'll actually be cool and kick it with us, but then the following day he basically avoids us like the plague and starts acting new again. While I understand you gotta be there for your girl and everything, you don't just play your friends like that in the process. And plus, it's not like the girl is even attractive. On a scale from 1-10....1.2. And she's annoying as hell...just don't get it. It's really frustrating..what should I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magicbalala245 Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Tell that dude to stop treating you like that in front of his girl just to impress her and if he continue's that I say it's time to end the friendship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reno Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 I deseeeeeeeeeeeeeeerve to be treated better than this. Any chance on some pics of the girl? But yah idk, seems like your friend is very needy/, has he had a gf before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Owner Real Deal Posted October 11, 2010 Owner Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 You wait until they are done, then you shut him out for a little while. Tell him why. The odds that they will last are pretty low, and I can tell just by what you've said and how he has treated you. Let him roll around in his personal ecstasy, then cut him loose once he decides he needs friends again. Most importantly, explain why you're doing it to him. If he apologizes, maybe you can forgive him. If he acts like a punk about it, so be it...you'll finally figure out the real person, and it'll be much easier to determine if he's a true friend or not (more than likely not). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smitty Posted October 11, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 I was initially thinking about that B, but I don't know. I guess I could. Just frustrating, y'know? I deseeeeeeeeeeeeeeerve to be treated better than this. Any chance on some pics of the girl? But yah idk, seems like your friend is very needy/, has he had a gf before? I won't ruin your day with that. Like I'm not the type to always judge off of JUST looks but...I just can't do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JYD Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Just treat him [expletive]ty back, he'll get the point. Just ignore him and don't ask him to ever hang out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NomarFachix Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Tell him to act like he's gotten [expletive] before Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Feelgood Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Give him his space. Let him miss out on hanging with you guys. It'll be his loss eventually. As time goes on, you guys will drift apart. I understand he's been a friend for ages but if he would rather hang with her, that's all on him. You and your other friend can just keep hanging out, having a blast together without him. Maybe he'll see what he's missing out on and come begging back. Like Real said, if/when he does, just kind of shun him a bit eventually allowing him back in if you feel it's time. Let him know why too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guru Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Tell him he is whipped. He will most likely get mad and try to prove to you he is not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Penny Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 tell him 'Bros before hoes' and that he needs to quit acting like a dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Warren2ThaG Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Talk to him but with a 40oz of malt liquor in ur right hand, step it up big man. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Universe Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Put girls underwear in his bed when you know his [expletive] is coming over. 70% of the time, it works all the time. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flash Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 http://img.kyon.pl/static/img/remiq.net_6931.jpg 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChosenOne Posted October 11, 2010 Report Share Posted October 11, 2010 Play the ignore card he will eventually catch on and confront you about it and then you blow his [expletive] up and tell him bro before hoes. Also I thought it was your house? lol tell him to act stop acting like a douchbag or GTFO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smitty Posted October 12, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 12, 2010 ^It is my house Harman. Put girls underwear in his bed when you know his [expletive] is coming over. 70% of the time, it works all the time. http://img.kyon.pl/static/img/remiq.net_6931.jpg Talk to him but with a 40oz of malt liquor in ur right hand, step it up big man. :lol: That's why you guys are awesome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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