Advice Needed

[deestillballin]

So most of you guys have known me since 2003 so you know I'm a laid back person ans usually figure stuff like this out on my own, but not this time.. I figured I ask the only group of men/women that I can actually trust in a situation like this..

 

It started in July when I hooked up with my now ex-girlfriend Tami. We dated for 6 months, 4 of those she didn't have a job, and I took care of her and her African friend Shaggie(no green card, work permit etc..) - whom she cheated on me at least 3 times for.. but moving on.

 

She lied about cheating on me, (I was stupid at the time and believed her) and let him and her stay at my house (he was in college at the time he came down for Thanksgiving, Xmas etc..)

 

Well Iin December we broke up, I eventually ended up with somebody else, I kicked her out the house etc.. but this is where the ball dropped. He was supposedly supposed to be dating her the whole time he came down here when school started, which means she and him was dating behind my back the whole time, he left school started going to Job Corps and lost his school status, and ended up getting married. My Ex at the time, disconnected all ties to him. Cell Phones etc. (I would say this happens around Feb 12thish)

 

Well when he got kicked out of Job Corps because they found out he was had no status, he called me because my ex, disconnected his phone, she has no place to say blah blah blah. He called me told me the truth about everything, about how my ex was and what not. My sister and I helped him out with everything, his wife is pregnant and WAS going to job corps, he was looking for jobs etc.. He had a job for like 3 days but lost it.. whatever, his wife usually came to visit on the weekends. Last week they went to Kansas she went AWOL from Job Corps, got kicked and and they have been living off of me..

 

In Nutshell, him and his wife don't do anything around the house. Im paying for him and her to live have been since Feb, nobody has offered to pay a bill or anything. What will be a nice approch to tell them to get out. I understand they are only 19 and 21 but I aint taking care of nobody else, Im done with leeches and moochers, would I be wrong to say Get yo shit and GTFO.. or should I go nicely and approach it in another direction.

 

Yall always help me out with stuff like this -- Sorry if it sounds jumbled its just a big [expletive]ing mess lol

[Flash]

Tell them to gtfo. They're becoming a liability.

[The Regime]

Yeh they are a burden on you at this point. I wouldn't take responsibility for someone who doesn't respect you.

[YugoRocketsFan]

Dang you're way too nice. I wouldn't pay for anybodys shit.

[Real Deal]

If they aren't paying for anything, you have the green light to make a list of everything you're paying for, and sort of increase the numbers a bit on things like food and your water bill...and show them the list, telling them you can't do it anymore.

 

If you really needed to get tricky without hurting their feelings, tell them your landlord is now asking that you pay extra rent because of the others living in your house. It's very common...nowadays, you even have to pay extra for pets.

 

Don't want to go that route? Just say the landlord told you they have to go within a week, or else you're getting kicked out because they aren't on the lease, and you can't revise a lease until it expires (you can, but few won't let you).

[Guru]

Just pick a date about a week from now and tell them they have to gtfo by then.

[DunkinDerozan]

I don't know how much money you make, but if you don't make a lot, just be honest and say i can't afford to pay for you guys anymore. You need to find somewhere else to live because i'm not going to let you leech off me anymore.